Truth is most people lead lives of quiet desperation, they walk around with smiles covering all their frustrations and misery, they want things but are too afraid to go get them. That’s why I decided a 9 to 5 job (yuck!) was not the thing for me and decided to build a massive online business that will help out other men escape the shell society has imposed over them.
So that’s why I do what I do, but why do you do what YOU do? Think about it for a second, why are you learning game from me or from some of the other top dating coaches out there? Why do you want money? Why do you want a massive social circle? Maybe you want respect, that’s the reason I started doing this, I thought I wasn’t good enough and I thought other people thought I wasn’t good enough, I wanted to change that and thought that being a master seducer would earn me the respect of everyone around me, naturally, I was wrong.
Some of the other men even resented me when I started getting really good at this shit, women loved me but I had a lot of trouble relating to the other dudes I wanted respect from, I soon realized that their attitude was really mediocre and I never actually wanted their respect, because all that matters is your self-image.
Your self-image dictates your reality, however you see yourself is how the world will see you and whatever you think of yourself, the world will tend to accept, and that’s a LAW of the universe. I realized that not giving a shit about other’s criticism was the most bad ass way to live your life. Read more on girlfriend activation system here.
There was a man traveling with his son and a donkey, if the man walked and let is son ride, people would criticize them for making the older man walk; if the man took the donkey, people would criticize them for making the child walk; if none of them rode, people would criticize them for not taking advantage of their donkey; the man ended up pushing the donkey off a bridge (obviously the man was too reactive and didn’t know Danny King). That story tells us something about society: no matter what you do, you will be criticized, so it’s a futile task to try and avoid criticism, and being affected by that criticism will make you miserable because it will never stop.
What you need in your life is complete indifference and CAREFREENESS, when you’re carefree, nothing matters and you do the things that you want to do when you want to do them. That kind of behavior will get you everything you want in life, you will not be afraid to seize opportunities and you will go put yourself outside your comfort zone, and remember, success starts outside your comfort-zone. Whenever you’re talking to women, they will sense your carefreeness because you’re not dependent on the outcome, you don’t even care if she decides not to sleep with you and for that exact reason, she will. Kinda crazy right?
So, how he hell do you become carefree? Mostly it’s a conscious decision that you have to work on every single day, every time you’re getting worked up about something or nervous or whatever, just think to yourself “I am a carefree person, and for that reason I’m OK with this moment.” That simple, I’m gonna give you an exercise to get you started right now; I want you to take out a sheet of paper and write down everything that’s bothering you right now, everything on your mind that worries you, do that and then put a star next to everything that’s within your control. After you’ve done that, you’ll realize that there’re very few things within your control, so just focus on working on those things without caring on an outcome.
Well, bad-ass, I hope you do that exercise and start your journey towards carelessness, also remember that carelessness is a life-long process, you’ll work on it for the rest of your life and it will bring you things you never thought possible. Alright, gotta go my man, later.